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Re: Why do woman lie
jase fox:Same thing happened to me 10 years ago Davro, but she left me with the 3 kids at the time, she just left !! i was left in limbo just like yourself not knowing what the hell was going on, we met up had a chat & it was another bloke, a younger model ! It was gut wrenching at the time, awful.

It never feels like it at the time but you do move on, but how long it takes is down to you mate? Keep your chin up...



Being left and having kids taken like Jase must be devastating. A girlfriend leaving you before any such commitments is an easy one to get over. It was not meant to be. I imagine you were born in 83 Davro so you have plenty of years on your side. Enjoy.

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Gerrardasnails:I imagine you were born in 83 Davro so you have plenty of years on your side. Enjoy.

Whereas of course if Davro is 83...

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When you see her on Thursday, tell her what you have been telling us here. Tell her how much you love her and your plans to settle down with her and marry her, have kids with her, etc.


Try not to appear too despondent and negative, even though I am sure it won't be easy. Try to be positive and look positive, even if you don't feel it. Somehow women seem to be more attracted to someone if they appear positive.


Dan.

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dantan:When you see her on Thursday, tell her what you have been telling us here.

Though probably best not to email her a link...

sonycentre:you have just watched knowing

Isn't that piling misery on top of suffering?

 

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Yes, certainly not a good idea to send a link here, because no doubt that some here reckon to move on from her.

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If she's been saying about getting married for a couple of years, but you've not acted on these not-so-subtle hints, you could have your answer.


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Alternatively she's been seeing someone else and the marriage stuff was guilt and her trying to make you happy but then she realised she'd rather be with the other bloke and finished it before it went any further.

Unfortunately the only person who can tell you is her. I'd be suing her for the dog though, that's just mean.

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Get Damien Hurst involved and you can split the dog between you.

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I just need thursday to happen so i can find out exactly the situation and if theres any hope left. I have just popped home from work and she has been in and left a note. Says just came to get a couple things, thanks for the letter i wrote and she is using this time to think and sort her head out and will see her thursday. Bring on thursday. Dont like not knowing whats going on.

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Not wishing to sound pessimistic but if Thursday goes bad and it looks like the end, get the locks changed. You never know what might go 'missing' in the future.

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Davro83:I just need thursday to happen so i can find out exactly the situation and if theres any hope left. I have just popped home from work and she has been in and left a note. Says just came to get a couple things, thanks for the letter i wrote and she is using this time to think and sort her head out and will see her thursday. Bring on thursday. Dont like not knowing whats going on.



Mmmmm..... It may be hard, but now you're in this position I'm not sure it'll be the best thing going back. It'll hang over your relationship like a dark cloud.


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Big Chris:Get Damien Hurst involved and you can split the dog between you.

<Shameless Name Dropping> You leave my neighbour out of it! </Shameless Name Dropping>

Anyway, lawyers would be cheaper...

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It is always painful when, for reasons best known to them, they just up sticks. I'm sure if someone was to get her side, it would be in total contrast - there's always two sides to the story.


Don't get me wrong, I really do feel for you - most of us have been there at some point. Sometimes you can be too close (or too entwined) to be objective; to quote an old adage, "you can't see the woods for the trees", rings true.


Use it as a learning curve and you will come through it far stronger. 


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the_lhc:Big Chris:Get Damien Hurst involved and you can split the dog between you.

<Shameless Name Dropping> You leave my neighbour out of it! </Shameless Name Dropping>

Anyway, lawyers would be cheaper...



...And a lot less messy.

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Big Chris:
the_lhc:Big Chris:Get Damien Hurst involved and you can split the dog between you.

<Shameless Name Dropping> You leave my neighbour out of it! </Shameless Name Dropping>

Anyway, lawyers would be cheaper...



...And a lot less messy.

I think he waits until the animal's dead to be fair...

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