Why do woman lie
Sorry i know people dont know me or care but my girlfriend of 4 years left me yesterday. Completely out of the blue. In 4 years we havent even had an argument! Just last week she was still saying I love you and i want to marry you and have kids. Then yesterday boom!, shes leaving. She needs time to think... And she took our dog. My house is now completely silent, my heart is in complete ruins and i just want to shout WHY!? WHY!? WHY!!!!???
Whats the point in love these days. Heart just gets broken in the end. Everyone seems to break up or get devorced. So many of my friends have had relationships end lately. It seems no one knows how to make a go of things.
Davro83,we have all been there,but i always like to think that when one door closes,another one opens,sometimes we all need some me time,to reflect on life.somepeople deal with thing diffrentley,im sure you will sort things out,everything happens for a reason.chin up mate.and remember life is for living.
I don't even know what to say.Iam also alone.but if I had a girlfriend for 4 years and suddenly she left.I'd be worst than you I yhink.but why take the dog...damn..
She has said she will come round after work on thursday. No idea what she is going to say but i suspect its to end it for good. When ever people split for a little bit , it never seems to work out. I just dont get it when just a few days ago she was saying she wants me to propose. And then saturday decided she doesnt know how she feels anymore.
Sorry to hear the bad news too.
Why? Who can say! There is only 1 person who can answer that for you I'm afraid.
As for advice - only the old cliche' - time heals all wounds! (Hmmm but does it? 
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and you? have you showed her you want her the same way?
Taking the dog is what makes it even worse. Its becuase i bought the dog for her birthday last year. I may have to go and buy a dog just so my house isnt so quiet and i have something to love.
Yeah i have always told her how i felt about her. I told her i loved her every time i saw her or left to go somewhere. As she did to me. And i always said i will one day propose. Didnt give her a time frame as wanted it to be a surprise.
Sorry to hear the bad news Davro.
The is a guaranteed (almost) way to get your girlfriend back. It usually works well.
is she contactable?
sonycentre:Davro83,we have all been there,but i always like to think that when one door closes,another one opens,sometimes we all need some me time,to reflect on life.somepeople deal with thing diffrentley,im sure you will sort things out,everything happens for a reason.chin up mate.and remember life is for living.
Excellent post.
Sometimes the time apart can make a relationship stronger. I've been through the time apart thing (couple of weeks) and come out the other side to have a stronger relationship.
Having a few days to think individually and then meeting up again is a great idea, as long as you are both totally honest with each other. It will either be the thing that cements your relationship, or it will be the start of something new and exciting without each other.
yeah she is contactable but everyone has said, and from past experience, its best to leave her alone to give her the space. If i keep ringing her that will just push her away even more. I wrote her a letter and gave it to her and i just hope come thursday she wants to come back..... but then probably i will always think will she leave again at some point.
Yeah i know time is a healer. Its just always so hard at the start. And i dont want to have to start my life over agin. I thought i had the person i wanted to spend my life with and have kids. Had so many plans. My future was set. And now its going all down the drain. I hate the dating scene, and going out to pubs/clubs or whatever to meet woman. I dont want to have to do that again when i dont think i will find anyone i will want more.
I hate that part that the more one insists the more they run away....hate it really..thats why i am alone
Davro83:Yeah i know time is a healer. Its just always so hard at the start. And i dont want to have to start my life over agin. I thought i had the person i wanted to spend my life with and have kids. Had so many plans. My future was set. And now its going all down the drain. I hate the dating scene, and going out to pubs/clubs or whatever to meet woman. I dont want to have to do that again when i dont think i will find anyone i will want more.
Sorry to hear that Davro... i feel your pain.....try get out of the house/apt meet your mates, go to the cinema, go to footie,go for few drinks whatever, just keep yourself occupied for the next few days, when she comes around listen to what she has to say/why she left and have a good heart to heart, hopefully things will work out.......
Best of luck on thursday mate..........
Sorry to hear the bad news. If you got on well, could you get back in touch with her and ask for a sit down and chat and see how the land lies?
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